I have been thinking about writing this post for a while now, so I told myself to write it before I forget it. Shorty, but a goodie. The topic is about letting go.
Letting go is something so easy in concept, but to do that in real life, it's hard--very hard. No matter if it's a job or a friend whom you were once close to - now, now you have to wake up and realize what you had is over.
Sometimes I will recall what once was and wonder what could have been. I'll read articles and ask friends for advice. I tried so hard to get myself out of that rut / hole.. taking in distractions whenever I can, but then thoughts will creep in, and the cycle will repeat itself again. Why is it so hard to let go of something that never belong to you in the first place? Why bother?
And so I thought about it over and over again, and came to a conclusion that it's hard because we once cared so deeply, and to realize it's all for nothing, it can be a little disheartening. But I learned a very important lesson: always take chances--what's the worst that can happen? Even if you fall flat on your face, it's only gonna hurt for a little bit, and then you heal and realize you learned something. Sometimes, that's all that matters.
Enjoy the ride, people!